Questioning Skills is an important part of good
communication. There are several different types of questions
that you can use to collect information. However, at the outset
of any conversation it is important to establish what you are
trying to achieve:
Once you have answered these questions you can then employ a
wide range of these techniques to elicit customer responses. The
ease with which you handle these techniques will come only with
confidence developed with experience.
The key to both answering and framing questions is preparation
which leads to a systematic process of thinking. Properly asked
and answered questions leads to more effective communication.
Let us start with the two most important types of questions:

CLOSED
PROBES |
OPEN
PROBES |
| It
is used to gather factual information. |
It
is used to stimulate conversation. |
| It
evokes a ‘Yes’ or ‘No’ response. |
It
evokes a flow of information about the concerned issue. |
| A
typical closed probe begins with ‘Do’ ,‘Is’
,’Can’, ‘Could’,’ Will’,’
Would’,’ Shall’, and’ Should’ |
Open
probes start with words like ‘How’, ‘Why’,
‘When’, ‘Where’, ‘What’,
‘ Who’, and ‘Which’ |
| The
questions are simple, straightforward and direct. |
Open
questions encourage dialogue by asking for elaboration on
an idea. |
| They
push you to take a position or be committed to a cause. |
It
allows you to express opinions about various points of view
on the issue. |
| Closed
questions are easy to answer, and are often used to direct
a conversation. |
Open
probes are harder to answer and cannot be used to direct a
conversation. |
As a general rule, when you meet someone for the first time it
is important to ask open-ended questions. This will enable you
to get more details because of the flow of conversation. It is
appropriate to ask close-ended questions when you know the person
and would like get some specific facts or answers. When close-ended
questions are used with people you are not familiar with, it can
be seen as directive and rude.
Examples of close-ended questions:
Examples of open-ended questions:
3. Providing Non-verbal Encouragement during conversation:
Non-Verbal Encouragement involves making sounds such as “Ah?”
“Oh?” “Uhh?” “Hmm?”“Okay”
as your customer talks. This reassures the customer that the agent
is giving his/her full attention to the conversation. This is
a rapport building technique that encourages the customer to talk
further.
4. Using the Pause
When asked questions, often times people ponder before they speak.
But people are uncomfortable with silence and tend to fill the
void with either another question or a statement. This could result
in a customer failing to offer an important piece of information.
On the other hand a pause provides an opportunity for the customer
to give more thought to the issue. This enables you to attain
more focused answers from the customer. An aptly used pause is
a powerful technique.
As Mark Twain once wrote:
“The right word may be effective but no word
was ever as effective as a rightly time pause.”
5. Using Summaries
Summarize regularly throughout the conversation. Summary questions
keep the customer focused on the conversation. It also enables
the speaker to regain control when the customer’s attention
has drifted.
This technique is very helpful for the following reasons:
Some examples of summary statements involve phrases such
as:
6. Counter-productive Questions are of two types:
Any question that interrupts the smooth flow of a conversation
could be called Counter-Productive.

Multiple Questions:
Multiple questions often confuse the customer. It causes the
customer to overlook some of the questions and be selective in
their answers.
Example:
Leading Questions
Leading questions indicates to the customer that a certain type
of response is required. The tone of the voice used with these
questions is often judgmental such as:
With these questions the speaker is expecting a “Yes or
No” answer from the customer. This would appear to be very
controlling to the customer and could very easily breakdown any
rapport or trust that was built.
Leading questions should only be used when a person of a higher
designation is talking to someone of a lower designation. So if
your boss asks you, “Are you planning to stay after the
meeting?” – he/she means that you should be staying
after the meeting. Hence these questions are seen as very directive
and can often interfere with relationships if not used judiciously.
Using the right questions is very important in getting useful
information as well as in building relationships. MMM Training
Solutions conducts a one day seminar on Communication Skills that
extensively trains you on developing your questioning skills.
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